Is it impossible to be in love with two ppl at the same time? One of the biggest requirements when in Love is loyalty and if you are cheating with someone else that isn’t being loyal…. I’m in love with two people is code for I’ve been cheating on my spouse and I messed around and caught feelings.
You are caught between a rock and a hard place because they have expressed being in love with someone else when what really happened is they really just told you that they have been cheating with someone else.
Being in love with someone consist and requires a group of things. The most Important thing is loyalty as I said before. What is loyalty well defined in the dictionary it means…..
the state or quality of being loyal; faithfulness to commitments or obligations.
It’s a contradiction to be faithful to someone when cheating on them. DUH. You can like two people at the same time, but can’t be in love with two people at the same time.
Yes it is that simple. The cheater is in love with themselves and needs an excuse for their bad behavior, because now they are emotionally involved and have been living another life with another person.
The cheater fails to explain that the affair wasn’t supposed to be more than just them stepping out of the relationship and cheating. Which is the situation at hand.
This person that you trusted has betrayed you. Yet they want you, the faithful, loving, good intentioned one in the relationship to empathize with them on deceiving you, first of all, then sharing the sacred love between the both of you with someone else.The reality is that this person doesn’t love you or that other person. I don’t think they even love themselves enough to take the time out and focus on what they really want in a relationship. They had to first step out on their current relationship for whatever reason and then create a whole other life with someone else to the point of where he feels the same way emotionally for two people. It’s levels to what they did. Engaging in and developing two emotionally intimate relationships doesn’t happen over night. Then to try and get you to empathize on their snuggle and not the fact that they deceived and hurt you is pretty fucking selfish. Excuse my French. They don’t deserve you feeling sad for them. I don’t believe they dee serve you period. That’s an extreme cheater in my book. Once a cheater there is a great possibly of them cheating again. Follow me on Instagram @MidnightCult Twitter: @midnightcult @flamingoblondie